Doctrine, step by step

Are Mary and the Saints Put Ahead of Jesus?

“If she's the Mother of God, was she there before God?” “Is the title Co-Redemptrix doctrine too?” We'll take those head-on, starting now.

The Catholic Church honors Mary as the greatest of the saints, but it does not worship her as God. Every true teaching about Mary and the saints shows who Jesus Christ is and what fruit his grace bears inside a human being. Even a beautiful title has to be corrected once it blurs Christ's place as the one Savior.

A watercolor of little lambs talking over their questions in a field of blue flowers

First, a few promises

  • Adoration goes to the Triune God alone; Mary and the saints are venerated as creatures.
  • We won't use the size of someone's Marian devotion as a grading scale for faith, or press a particular devotion on anyone.
  • We won't add titles that blur the unique salvation and mediation of Jesus in the name of exalting Mary.
  • We won't retell unverified legends as historical fact in order to dress up a saint's life.
  • We won't treat relics and sacred objects as magic tools, or as lucky goods to be bought and sold.

Today in one line Venerating Mary and the saints rightly turns your eyes toward Jesus Christ, who gave them that grace and calls us to holiness too.

How to ask when the talk turns to Mary and the saints

  1. Look first for the confession about Jesus. ‘Mother of God’ is, before anything else, a phrase that guards who Jesus is.
  2. Tell God apart from creatures. Adoration, veneration, intercession, and cooperation are not interchangeable words.
  3. Check what a title means and where it stops. Long use by itself does not make every expression good catechetical language today.
  4. Sort doctrine, devotion, and legend. A dogma you must believe, a devotion you may choose, and an unverified story do not belong on one level.
  5. Look at the fruit of a devotion. True veneration of Mary and the saints draws you closer to Christ and makes you love your neighbor more.

A 30-second answer “Mary isn't God; she's the greatest disciple, saved completely by Christ. The Church calls her the Mother of God because the Jesus born of her is one person, true God and true man. Mary and the saints don't take the place of Jesus — they pray for us and give us models of the Gospel lived out. That's why we don't use a title like ‘Co-Redemptrix,’ which blurs the unique salvation of Christ, and why we don't handle relics or devotions as superstition.”

A note for parents and catechists

  • Rather than replaying the ‘Marian veneration versus idolatry’ exchange, let the child name the exact title or dogma they are stuck on.
  • Lay the Immaculate Conception beside the virginal conception of Jesus, and the Ascension beside the Assumption, as though in a table: who acts, what happens, which way the grace runs.
  • Never use Mary's obedience as grounds for demanding silence and unconditional submission from a child or a victim.
  • Following “Mater Populi Fidelis” (2025), don't teach ‘Co-Redemptrix’ as a nickname that is fine to use if you mean it kindly, and don't explain ‘Mediatrix of all graces’ as a gate that grace goes through.
  • When you introduce a saint's life, separate what has been officially verified from the tradition and legend that grew up later, and don't describe brutal scenes of martyrdom in detail beyond a child's age.
  • Be wary of explanations that touching a relic or a sacred object automatically brings a blessing, and of money changing hands; help them find an act of love to practice today, following the saint's virtue.

Read more in the official documents

These pages are a draft catechetical aid for starting a conversation with children and teens. They do not stand in for the whole of the Church's teaching on Mary and the saints, and they impose no particular devotion or unverified story as an obligation of faith. With the hard questions, keep looking: read Scripture together with the official documents of the Church, and get help from a pastor and a catechist you can trust.