Mary and the saints · Question 7
Do you have to go through ‘Mary, Mediatrix of all graces’ to receive God's grace?

The question: “God put every grace into Mary's hands, so do you get nothing at all unless it passes through her?”
The Church's answer: No. The one mediator of salvation between God and human beings is Jesus Christ, true God and true man. The grace the Holy Spirit gives is the gift by which the Triune God enters the deepest part of a person directly and makes that person holy. Mary is not a warehouse standing between God and us that stores grace and hands it out, nor a gate you are required to pass through.
When the word ‘mediation’ is used in the lesser sense of cooperation, help, and intercession, it can be understood the way Mary acted at Cana: she told Jesus what was needed and told the others to do as he said. In that sense she prays for what we need and helps us open our hearts to Christ. But “Mater Populi Fidelis” (2025) explains that the title ‘Mediatrix of all graces’ has no clear basis in revelation and breeds the misunderstanding that grace must pass through Mary's hands, so it carries limits that keep it from helping anyone understand rightly.
If they press further: “Then does Mary's intercession mean nothing?” — Not at all. The Church believes the saints in heaven pray for us out of love, and it treasures Mary's motherly intercession in a special way. Intercession is simply not a power that replaces or tops up what God does; it is the prayer of a creature, which God freely welcomes.
In one sentence: “Grace is given directly by the Triune God, and the one mediator of salvation is Jesus. Mary isn't a gate that grace has to pass through; she's a mother who prays for us and helps us open our hearts to Christ.”