Church life and vocation · Question 4

Does ‘vocation’ only mean a call to be a priest or a sister?

Watercolor of lambs showing several ways of life standing under the same light

The question: “If I don't become a priest or a religious, have I missed God's call?”

The Church's answer: The first call given to every person is communion in love with God, and for the baptized there is a common vocation: to live a holy life resembling Christ and to share in the mission of the Church. Within it some are called to marriage, some to ordained ministry or to the consecrated life, and each person looks for a concrete road of service in the family, at work, in society, and in the Church.

So vocation is wider than “recruiting clergy and religious” — though it is also worth being careful about calling every job you happen to like an unchangeable script written in heaven. A lasting call about a state of life, the choice of a profession, and the service you take on at a given moment are related, but they are not the same thing. Changing careers or watching a plan fail does not mean you have lost the whole of God's call. On any road the question stays the same: “How can I love and serve God and my neighbor better?”

If they press further: “If I've never had a special experience of a vocation, does that mean there's no call at all?” — no. The call of your baptism is already clear. Even with no striking feeling, you can find the next step slowly — in prayer and the sacraments, in your relationships and duties, in the gifts you have received and the needs of the world.

In one sentence: “Vocation isn't a word reserved for priests and sisters. Everyone is called to holiness and love, and we live that common call concretely in marriage, in holy orders, in consecrated life, and in all sorts of places of service.”