Prayer and the spiritual life · Question 3
People still die and still suffer no matter how hard we pray, so what good is prayer?

The question: “I prayed as hard as I could and it didn't heal. Is that because I didn't believe enough?”
The Church's answer: To be clear from the start: prayer is not a method that is guaranteed to cure an illness, and if you were not healed, it is not because you lacked faith. The Church does not claim to know why some desperate petitions are not answered the way we hoped. The reason we do not measure the worth of prayer by a cure rate alone is that prayer means not hiding the pain — bringing the lament to God and refusing to let go of the relationship. Within that relationship we ask for the strength and wisdom to endure, and a community comes to care for the sick person and to take up treatment and real, practical help. None of this fruit is scientific proof that God hears every petition, but it does show that “it wasn't cured, so prayer failed entirely” is not an adequate verdict either.
If they press further: “What if someone who promises a miracle asks for more faith and more money?” — Be wary of anyone who guarantees a cure, blames the patient for the failure, and demands money. Tell your parent or guardian and a pastor you can trust, and keep going with treatment.
In one sentence: “Even when the answer isn't the one you hoped for, no one can conclude that it's your fault or your lack of faith. God does not abandon you in your suffering.”