Death, dying, and funerals · Question 2

When people die, do they become angels in heaven?

Watercolor of a lamb looking at a person shape and an angel shape as two different creatures

The question: “Is it all right to say a child who died got wings and became an angel who watches over the family?”

The Church's answer: Human beings and angels are two different kinds of creature that God made. An angel is by nature a spiritual creature without a body, while a human being is body and soul as one. Dying does not switch a person over to another kind of creature and make them an angel. The future the Church hopes for a human being is not turning into an angel; it is living with God and rising on the last day in one's own body.

Calling someone who has died “our angel” can work as an affectionate figure of speech, but children may take it as a doctrinal fact, so it is better to explain what you mean. Nor do we settle it that a particular person is in heaven and is watching everything that happens beside us. We entrust the one who has died to God's justice and mercy, and we pray for that person.

If they press further: “Then who do I ask for protection — my guardian angel, or the family member who died?” — the source of protection is God. A guardian angel is an angel God has charged with helping a person, and a family member who has died is not a being changed into an angel. We pray for the one who has died, and we hope that they are in God.

In one sentence: “People don't turn into angels when they die. The future God has promised us is to rise as a whole human being, body and soul, and to live with him.”